MOURNING SHOULD BE VALUED

Mourning is the emotional expression in response to a significant life event that causes grief, especially the loss of a loved one. It majorly occurs as a result of someone's death, especially a loved one. It, however varries depending on feelings and context. It is how much you meant when you were alive. On several occasions, one is allowed to mourn their loved one; the expression conveys how close the relationship was. In many cases, people wear a black robe as a sign of grief. Black represents the dark times, heartbreaking terrors and disbelief. 

I write this piece with a heavy heart, mixed reactions and disbelief. I don't know how, but I truly know the what and who. Losing a family member or a friend ain't easy. It feels like a pinch or a bite of a siafu(ant), which leaves one with extreme pain. Death is indeed part of life, but one that does not knock. Unlike giving birth, death comes unexpectedly, and it hits hard, even beyond heartbreak. I'd rather have 100heartbreaks than lose someone close to the dark world.

I don't expect to be told not to mourn someone I loved. Also, you don't have to be told how to do it. Letting sorrows flow when grieving is healthy. It is a sign of relief, letting go of the dark side that may hold you back from moving forward. Life has to continue, and you gotta get up and make yourself ready to face another challenge.

The notion of criticising mourners is kinda selfish. Most of us forget that we all deal with feelings deepened in the spiritual world, and the body needs to let go of the feelings to replenish and get stronger. Just as the night is dark and full of terrors, so is death. It takes away love and replaces it with sorrow. The black raven story has a detailed explanation of the same. 
Take your time, mourn, release the feeling, heal and be ready to face another challenge. Because challenges are part of daily life activities. 
Sorry for your loss.......😭😭😭😭😭
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