MY FATHER'S ADVICE...

 

 Not everything will go as you expect in your life. There are ups and downs. This is why you need to drop expectations and go with the flow. Reduce bitterness from your life, that shit delays blessings! You need blessings to keep going. Dating a supportive woman is everything. A supportive woman will help you achieve and develop. If you want to be successful, you must respect one rule - Never lie to yourself. Self-respect is key.

 If your parents always count on you, don't play the same game with those who count on their parents. They are not the same, based on life status and behavioral critics. Chase goals, not people. Goals will take you higher; concentrate on making them valid. Chasing people comes with emotional disgrace and downfalls. Skills matter in every aspect of life.

 Your 20's are your selfish years, build yourself, choose yourself first at all costs. Before you think of doing unto others, always choose yourself first. Self-reliance, self-care and self love.Using the three keys to unlock your strength and skills helps in growing while still young. Investment is quite great when done at early ages. Late investment doesn't count, its loses in the end. Investment could be in studies, business,farming, skill nurture among others. 

 Detachment is power. Release anything that doesn't bring you peace. Be it people, places, habits etc. People who celebrate your down fall even in darkness are evil, let them go. Habits such as being drunk can be dropped if a practice is put in place. Detachment of bad things help in creating a fresh start within your body. General body reshuffles to create an amazing fresh start.

 Only speak when your words are more beautiful than your silence. Positive words create or builds good vibes.What you say impacts your audience directly either positively or negatively. A positive vibe always glue people together while negative vibe scatter emotions thus breaking existing bonds. Invest in your looks. Do it for no one else but yourself. When you look good, you feel good. Normalize dressing well, you're broke, not mad.

 Some people want to see everything go wrong for you because nothing is going right for them. Do you, never compete. No matter how thirsty you are, there are some people you should never ask for water. Sometimes people come back in your life just to check if you're still stupid.

 Being a good person doesn't get you loved. It gets you used. Don't confuse control over love. Being used is common and it has created a bad influence which brings only shame and misfortune. Don't be afraid of losing people; be afraid of losing yourself by trying to please everyone around you. The sooner you figure out which chairs don't belong at your table, the more peaceful your meals become.

  Keep your move private. Don't announce it until it's SEALED! Premature announcements attract bad spirits. The best thing you can do is stop telling people what's going on in your life.. That move you're scared to make might just be the one that changes everything. Do it. Move.Don't mess up your progress trying to rush the process.

 For the sake of your mental health, don't love too hard. Therapy sessions are expensive. Also, marry when you're ready, not when you're lonely. Your thoughts are very powerful; make them positive.  Social media will make you envy someone you should actually pity.

 Nobody owes you anything on your birthday; learn to save money and spoil yourself. No matter how thirsty you are, there are some people you should never ask for water. Add value to your life, learn a skill, and develop yourself. Never love someone to the point where you no longer mind them hurting you. You are your own best friend. Never ever put yourself down.